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The Cherese Mari Laulhere Child Life Department

The Cherese Mari Laulhere Child Life Department at CHOC strives to normalize the hospital environment for our patients and families. “Normalizing” the hospital experience is the process of making things like medical equipment and procedures feel less strange or foreign.

By doing this, patients and their family members can feel more at ease while at the hospital and will be able to focus on what is most important: feeling better.

The CHOC Difference

CHOC’s incredible child life services include:

Specialized Child Life Programs

Although child life services are integrated into almost every aspect of care at CHOC, our child life experts have developed a number of very specialized therapy and education programs created to meet our patients’ diverse needs.

Child life services are available Monday through Friday, 8:30 a.m. until 9 p.m., and Saturdays and Sundays from 8:30 a.m. until 5 p.m. Child life services are available in the Emergency Department seven days a week from 3:30 p.m. until midnight.

Child Life Specialists: Trained Professionals That Help Our Patients and Families

Child life specialists are trained professionals with bachelor’s or master’s degrees in the area of child life, child development, human development or recreation therapy. Many child life specialists also have national professional certification. Their work with patients and their families varies depending upon each patient’s age, developmental level, illness and needs, and can include educating the patient and family on a certain procedure, surgery or diagnosis. It can also include providing support or therapeutic interventions during stressful or painful situations.

The Benefits of Therapeutic Medical Play

Play is a very important part of life for children; it allows them to use their imaginations, express themselves and provides opportunities to learn, explore and better understand their feelings and the environment around them. Medical play allows children to have hands-on play experiences using real or pretend medical equipment and supplies, and it is a key component of the work done by the child life specialists at CHOC.

Through the guidance of our child life specialists, medical play allows patients of all ages to become familiar and more comfortable with the hospital and their illness. It allows children to prepare for and understand tests, treatments and surgical procedures. Playing with the equipment also allows children a way to express their feelings, fears and anxieties about the hospital and in doing so, learn ways to cope with the things they find stressful or upsetting in a calm, comfortable environment.

Many parents are surprised to learn that children of all ages can engage in and benefit from medical play.

Medical treatments and hospitalization can be stressful for all children, including infants. Unlike older children, families and child life specialists cannot fully explain to an infant what is happening to them. Medical play provides infants the opportunity to become familiar with objects commonly found in the hospital environment and can be as simple as allowing the child to play peek-a-boo with hats and masks worn by doctors and nurses or allowing babies to explore and play with medical equipment like stethoscopes, blood pressure cuffs and bandages.
Toddlers and preschoolers are very aware of the things going on around them. While some children at the younger end of the spectrum may not be able to express themselves through words and sentences, medical play can provide all young children with invaluable opportunities to express themselves, learn about the hospital environment and understand and cope with the feelings they are having about their treatment.

Child life specialists provide toddlers and preschoolers some similar experiences to those infants engage in—like playing with medical equipment and playing peek-a-boo with the hats and masks worn by doctors and nurses. They are also provided with opportunities to take medical play to the next level and engage in role playing. Role playing allows toddlers and preschoolers to tend to a doll, stuffed animal, family member or friend much like the doctors and nurses take care of them using medical equipment like bandages and cotton balls or a child’s doctor’s kit. The role playing, also seen in some cases as parallel play in which the child plays and tends to his or her patient while the doctor or nurse tends to the child, allows the child to learn about and explore the hospital environment while expressing his or her feelings, fears or frustrations through the act of caring for his or her “patient.”

Young children also engage in medical play through books and art. They can benefit from being read developmentally appropriate books on health care experiences and create collages with bandages and other medical equipment. Preschoolers can take the art to the next level by using paint and other mediums and even paint with syringes.
Although most school-aged children can easily speak and express their feelings and emotions, dealing with illness, tests, treatments and hospitalization can be extremely overwhelming. Medical play allows school-aged children to express their feelings and emotions and learn the vocabulary they encounter throughout treatment. Having a greater understanding of their treatments, bodies and the hospital allows them to feel more secure with their experiences.

School-aged children can engage in medical play through art, role playing and teaching, active play, and through books.

  • Art is a wonderful way for school-aged children to express their feelings about their treatments and become familiar with handling medical equipment like cotton balls and bandages by making collages or sculptures.
  • While explaining information to children is important, what is also important is a child's ability to convey the information back to someone else. Role playing with medical equipment or a play doctor's kit allows children to be able to process what they have learned and then find ways to verbalize their understanding. Children often pretend to be a child life specialist, nurse or doctor explaining or "teaching" their dolls, stuffed animals, family members or friends what to expect in the hospital or with a procedure or treatment. The ability to teach what they have learned to a friend, or even a stuffed animal, can help the child feel more like an expert and more in control.
  • Children can engage with medical equipment in "active play," thus making the equipment less about painful procedures and more about fun. Children can balance cotton balls and other small items on tongue depressors or can use syringes for squirting water or blowing cotton balls across a flat surface.
  • Reading books about health care experiences can provide school-aged children with more information and vocabulary related to their hospital experience or illness, thus providing insight on what other children have experienced.
While teens and young adults do not engage in medical play the same as young children, they still greatly benefit from handling medical equipment, learning about the hospital experience and expressing themselves through art, music and words. Although adolescents may seem like adults, they often have many of the same fears as young children, plus the anxieties and pressures of high school and college.

Although they are no longer young children, teens are given the opportunity to explore and handle real medical equipment both from the standpoint of learning and to use it for sculpting and collages. They are also encouraged to write stories or poems about their health care experiences or keep a hospital scrapbook.

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Video: Remembering Cherese

Cherese Mari Laulhere is remembered by many for her compassion, sincerity and zest for life. An elementary school assignment revealed her dream for peace. As she matured, she continued to nurture that vision by focusing her attention on causes that improved the lives of others, especially children. A bus accident in India tragically ended Cherese’s life when she was 21 years old, but her family and friends make sure her dream lives on through the work of the foundation they created in her name.

The Cherese Mari Laulhere Foundation, whose mission is to provide funding and support to charitable organizations that enrich the lives of children and families, donated $5 million to endow the child life department at CHOC Hospital. In recognition of the foundation’s generosity and to honor the memory of Cherese, the department will be named The Cherese Mari Laulhere Child Life Department.

“Our donation is truly a gift from Cherese, who was committed to making a difference in people’s lives. Supporting CHOC’s child life department and the inspiring ways its specialists and programs positively impact patients and families each and every day is a wonderful tribute to our daughter and her dream to make the world a better place for children,” says Cherese’s parents, Chris and Larry Laulhere.

For more information on Cherese’s story and the impact of the Foundation, please visit